
Talk behind their backs… in front of them
We like to tell our friends about the good and bad things our children do. Your big four-year-old will probably be hurt if you say, in front of them and your friend, that they wet the bed last night, even if it seems harmless and you did not intend to make fun of them.
Try avoiding this kind of mistake! Your children will always remember when you humiliate them, even if that wasn't your intention!