Can learning two languages at the same time confuse my child?
Rest assured: learning two languages simultaneously during your child’s first years cannot confuse him. Suggestion? Differentiate the languages as much as possible. For example, dad speaks English and mom speaks French. Hang on! The child’s progress may be slower at first. “You will realize that his vocabulary is very limited in both languages, his sentences are short and he's using less adjectives than most children his age” ,says Richard C. Woolfson in his bookt Small talk, from first gestures to simple sentences. Furthermore, studies have shown that children who are bilingual before the age of 5 have a better grammar comprehension later on in life. “By understanding that there are two words to describe every object, the child will discover that defining words is very complex.” Early bilingualism is a great introduction to the world!
My child lisps. Should I be worried?
This speech impediment will disappear by itself. Your 3-year-old won’t even understand if you try to explain the problem to him. He won’t even realize that he's lisping.
The “s” and “z” sounds only get differentiated by the age of 3 or 4, but some kids will speak from the tip of their tongue until they go to grade school. Some kids may even have difficulty pronouncing sounds like “ch” and “j”. Other sounds are harder to make, like the French “r” in French words such as: Train, Bravo, gros, etc…).
Talking is a physical thing! To be able to speak, the child must have control over certain muscles and the movement of the air passing through the lungs, pharynx, nose and mouth. All this to allow him to make different noises.
The international baby language
- At around 8 weeks: vowels such as “a”, “e” and “o”.
- Between 12 and 16 weeks: Baby "talks" a lot with his mother.
- At around 4 months: Baby does singing exercises.
- At around 20 weeks: It’s time for the famous “Ah reuh”.
- At around 28 weeks: Baby says “ba” and “ca” and makes the “mmmm” sound while crying.
Talking to your baby: Yes!
Babytalk: No!
The importance in talking to your baby is undeniable. However, some parents talk like babies when talking to their child. We're not talking about doing mimics, exaggerating certain sounds or putting rhythm in your phrases. When we say “babytalk” we mean saying “tchou tchou” instead of train and “miaou miaou” instead of cat – instead of teaching them the real words. Even if your child has a hard time saying certain words when he's learning how to speak (saying fower instead of flower, fiend instead of friend) we highly advise against using the “babytalk” method.
When parents speak like their babies, the little ones continueto think that it's the correct way to pronounce these words. It is better to name things correctly instead of using a short-cut. However, expect to hear many little funny words that will turn into word games and be a lot of fun. You don’t have to correct your child every time he makes a mistake but just repeat the word over again and try to say it as best you can.
Inspiring books
- First language acquisition, Eve V. Clark, 2009.
- How babies talk: The magic and mystery of language in the first three years of life, Roberta Michnik Golinkoff and Kathy Hirsh-Pasek, Editions de l’Homme, 2000.
