Average time it takes to get pregnant
A quick Google search is enough to reveal plenty of women, everywhere, who thought they would get pregnant quickly and ended up disappointed. Fact is, many women are surprised to find out they can’t get pregnant as fast as they’d hoped, and it's often caused by a misunderstanding of how their bodies and pregnancy really work.
For a healthy woman under 35 with no known fertility problems, it can take up to a year to get pregnant before being successful, but that isn’t necessarily a sign that something’s wrong.
Why is it sometimes difficult to get pregnant?
Factors affecting fertility (our ability to get pregnant) vary and may be caused by our lifestyle, our physical or emotional health, or a simple misunderstanding of how our reproductive system works.
It’s important to learn everything you can about pregnancy before you even try to get pregnant, so you can be well prepared and understand what is happening with your body. This will help temper any false expectations that may disappoint you in the long run.
Common factors affecting female fertility
- Contraception: Women who’ve been using contraceptives for years often report having to go through an adjustment period after they stop, which can have a major impact on fertility and the time it takes to get pregnant. (e.g. A woman who receives hormone injections having to wait for 6–9 months after her last one before trying to get pregnant.)
- The reproductive system: Research shows that one in two couples are actually trying to conceive at the wrong time of the month. This doesn't include the couples that think that the more sex you have, the better your chances of getting pregnant (it’s actually the opposite—too much sex can reduce sperm count and, thus, the chances of conceiving). Couples who are serious about wanting a child need to learn everything they can about their reproductive system and the ovulatory cycle.
- Age: Our fertility is at its peak during puberty and gradually declines with age. After 35, it goes down even faster and the quality of the remaining eggs isn't as good. As more and more couples choose to wait before starting a family, this factor is becoming increasingly common.
- Lifestyle: It's important to have a healthy lifestyle regardless, but this becomes even more important if you're planning to carry life inside you, as your sexual organs need to be at their best. Maintain a healthy diet, stay at a healthy weight, get into good sleeping habits, be active and develop good stress management techniques. Of course, if you’re a smoker, or if you drink alcohol regularly, these bad habits will negatively affect your fertility.
- Ovulation: Studies show that 33–50% of women who have fertility issues actually have ovulation problems. Women’s ovarian cycles are complex and governed by hormones that can be unpredictable and rather easily affected, in turn affecting fertility. Factors like weight gain (or loss), stress or disease might affect the cycle and make it harder to conceive. Many women also have naturally irregular cycles because of polycystic ovary syndrome, which itself reduces the ability to get pregnant.
- Physical problems: Blockages in the fallopian tubes preventing sperm from reaching the egg, endometriosis or uterine fibroids may prevent pregnancy. To properly diagnose a physical ailment and receive suitable treatment, consult your doctor for tests and the appropriate resources.
- Emotional state: Though it's difficult not being able to control what’s happening with your body, it's important to not become obsessive. It might disturb your ovarian cycle due to stress and, thus, make things worse.
- Unexplained infertility: In rare cases, although tests reveal no physical problems or fertility issues, some women are still unable to get pregnant. It can be an extremely stressful and frustrating situation for couples that have no way of knowing how to increase their chances of a pregnancy. Only a third of couples that experience unexplained infertility will conceive without medical intervention within a period of three years, while others will resort to assisted reproduction techniques, such as in vitro fertilization (IVF).