What can be done?
- Help parents to use conflict situations between brothers and sisters as an opportunity to teach important social skills such as peaceful conflict resolution.
- Avoid putting children with aggressive traits together in the same group.
- Implement social skills training in the pre-school years.
- Initiate intervention programs that support the development of social behaviour skills.
- Two types of intervention programs have been shown to be effective: Universal programs, aimed at promoting social skills in all the children of a group, and Targeted programs, specifically geared toward children who have problems in their social relationships.These programs attempt to improve the children’s social behaviour skills and their peer relationships.
- Involve families, teachers and peers in intervention programs.
Become informed about the training methods used in the following promising programs:
Universal pre-school programs
- I Can Problem Solve (ICPS)
- Promoting Alternative Thinking Strategies (PATHS)
Targeted programs for pre-school children with aggressive behaviour problems
- Incredible Years Dinosaur Social Skills
- Problem Solving Curriculum
Targeted program for pre-school children who are socially isolated and who come from low-income families
- The Play Buddy
. Centre of Excellence for Early Childhood Development
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For a more in-depth understanding of child peer relations, consult our experts’ articles in the Encyclopedia on Early Childhood Development, available here.
Peer relations: Supporting children to develop friendship. In: Tremblay RE, Barr RG, Peters RDeV, Boivin M, eds. Encyclopedia on Early Childhood Development. Montreal, Quebec: Centre of Excellence for Early Childhood Development; 2009. Available here. Accessed September 2010.