4- Promote sexual proximity
By offering shared moments to your couple, you promote complicity. These moments of proximity will be filled with tenderness, sensuality or eroticism. Sadly, finding moments for spontaneous sexual activities becomes harder when you have children. Accepting to give time to your couple gets you out of a whirlwind of chores and obligations. Also, by increasing your dating, you will become accomplices and sexual desire will have better chances to show up. Of course, those meetings cannot be forced on anyone. For many women, sexual desire comes with reciprocal love and if it is put aside, it will be hard to awaken her sexual desire.